For centuries, the law has struggled
with issues surrounding rights of spouses in custody battles. Of course, until recently, all of these battles have involved
heterosexual couples. When a married woman gives birth, who is the
father? What rights does a married man have to custody or visitation
of young children? What rights does a husband have when children are
conceived in a marriage through artificial insemination. All of
these questions have been asked and answered for heterosexual
couples. Now the same questions are being raised for same-gender
couple who are getting divorced.
One of the first cases in Massachusetts
to look at some of these issues for same-gender marriages has
answered one of these questions. In the case of Della Carte v.Ramirez, question was raised of the rights of the non-biological
parent in regards to a child born to the spouse through artificial
insemination. The biological mother argued that her spouse had no
rights to her child because she was not the father and had no
biological connection and that the artificial insemination law, G.L.c. 46, § 4B provided no rights to the spouse because it used
language about a child conceived with the “husband's” consent.
In this case, the non-biological spouse was granted joint custody
over the minor child. In doing so, the court made a ruling that the
spouse was the legal parent of the child.
The result in this case established
that for questions regarding paternity, custody, and visitation,
there should be no difference between the law for heterosexual
couples and the law for same-gender couples. In Massachusetts,
marriage creates the same rights regardless of the gender make-up of
the couple. Laws that use language that create rights for husbands
should be interpreted to mean spouses. For Massachusetts, family
court disputes should make no distinction based on the gender of the
parties. Custody and paternity decisions should be based on
concepts such as the best interests of the children without regard to
the gender of the parents.
Paternity, custody and visitation in
Massachusetts are complicated issues. An experienced family lawattorney can help parties understand the proper issues to raise in
custody proceedings.